Comfort
The word ‘comfort’ readily brings to mind some strong images from everyday life. A toddler falls over in the park and bursts into tears. The Mother comforts her child with a hug, a pat on the head and the words. “There, there don’t cry, you’ll be fine!” Or the word ‘comfort’ may conjure up in your imagination more serious needs than some gravel rash from a fall in the park: the grieving friend who unexpectedly lost her partner to cardiac arrest. To bring meaningful comfort in such a situation is quite a challenge. Again a hug and some kind words are the very least we can do for the bereaved. The challenge in such situations is knowing how to comfort. Often our attempts to comfort seem terribly inadequate. It’s one thing to pat a teary toddler on the head; it’s quite another thing to try and ease the grief of someone who just suffered bereavement. There’s a further problem too in such situations: to what extend are we genuinely concer...